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May 9, 2018

It’s true…Travel does make a difference

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For the past few months I have traveled very little. Life has shifted to where my kids are set into sports, and art schools, and other activities that they enjoy beyond our frequent trips here and there.

I’ve also been working a lot, which is necessary as we plan for a few big trips next year.

But during this time, I’ve gotten to spend much of it with other people who don’t really travel much, for work or fun. What it has confirmed for me is how much travel influences a person. Now, I don’t say this from a place of arrogance at all, but with a perspective of what it is to approach the world, your everyday life, with a deeper sense and understanding for things outside of it.

Travel feels like that time I went to Fiji, a land so far away from my own, but they all thought I was their sister and treated me like I had come home.

I have met people who cannot wrap their minds around ideas or viewpoints outside of their own. Who don’t understand how an outsider might perceive their world or their communities differently than how they have accepted things to be. Oh, these are the most infuriating and frustrating of people.

I have met people in social circles who can’t grasp how certain actions or words or comments are received by someone with different experiences or backgrounds from their own.

Travel is what allowed me to ignore warnings, and gave me the curiosity to cross borders and find my story in Palestine, not what I hear from others.

Being grounded has reminded me that when you don’t travel, even if just outside your community, you miss out on the opportunity to see things in a way that you just might not be able to see otherwise. You aren’t challenged in what you think is right, or the norm. You stand firm in the belief that because this is how you do it, that it is just how it is done. You question nothing, unless that something goes against what you affirm to be truth. I have met people, successful, intelligent people who seem to always hit a wall in their overall potential and ability to think outside the box, be creative, problem solve, or even relate positively with outsiders or those who offer different perspectives. I have seen people who, as my abuela used to say, will drown in a glass of water unaware of what difficulty truly is. Meanwhile, the vast oceans remain undiscovered to them.

Not traveling keeps you blind to so much and no amount of education alone can open your eyes in a way that travel does.

Travel is how I can get past the insecurities of language barriers and find peace in the beauty of what was before me in rural Thailand.

Granted, there are those who take a trip and come back just as close-minded as when they left. I can often tell you exactly what kind of a sheltered vacation they had based on their complete lack of impact from it.

But still, my not traveling as much has reaffirmed that value and importance of traveling not just for my own personal growth and awareness, but also for that of my children. It would be easy to think that all the activities they are taking part in here at home would be enough to broaden their minds, but the truth is, we stay in a bubble of our own privilege and comforts and reality. Travel is the one thing that has pushed us all to see past the stereotypes, to question what we read in books or see on TV, to question authority, or at the very least what we are told is the authority on any issue.

Having lived overseas for half my life enriched me with insights that I have been able to carry with me everywhere, from the boardroom to the stage to relationships. This isn’t a gift I have been able to give my children yet, and so we travel and I hope that they are wiser, kinder, more insightful, more creative, more open, more curious, and happier for it.

Travel has informed me, like about the large Basque community that lives in Southern France. You think you know, than you realize you know so little.

I have always said, I don’t think that it is necessary to spend a lot of money or travel overseas – though, it’s a nice goal to have – to immerse yourself in different cultural experiences and expose yourself to diverse ideologies and viewpoints. Every country I have ever visited has areas that are different from one another. No two towns or cities are the same, whether in the states or abroad.

My saying that travel does make a difference isn’t something that you will completely understand until you do it. I believe in the power of travel so deeply that I see the importance in being an advocate of the same. Travel has influenced me as a person, as a thinker, and I have seen its influence on my family and on friends who make travel a part of their lives too.

Travel has made me a less selfish person and better mom, one who wants her children to be brave and curious and giving and kind and adventurous too.

So, as the summer months approach us I hope you have the ability and time to take a trip. Whether a road trip to a different state, or a weekend escape to another town, or a plane ride somewhere new. I hope you get a chance to experience this difference that I am talking about. If so, come back here and let me know! I always love to hear about other people’s adventure and the new things they learned along the way.

May you travel happy and safely.

 

 

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Carol Cain

Brooklyn native Carol is happiest when on an adventure, whether close to home or farther away. She is a small business owner and travel writer. In addition to creating Girl Gone Travel, she is the Founder and Principal of Brave World Media, a social media marketing, communications, and branding agency. She's mom to three wonderful sons and wife to a handsome Irish/Scot. She lives, works, and plays in the beautiful Finger Lakes region of NY.

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Happy Monday, y’all. Woke up in time to enjoy the soft glow of sunlight that shines its way around our house in the morning, and sipped on a cafecito without being rushed for anything. So already today is a win. 

Yesterday we worked our longest day yet for our little coffee cart that could (7 hours!!!) at the Heritage Fiesta in Ithaca, NY. 

Though we were ready for a crowd, the reception was also unexpected because there was a popular coffee shop just steps away. 

But we had Cómodo Fam stop by, family (who also fed us 🙏🏾), and soooo many members of the Latinx and BIPOC community who were just excited to see a small business like ours representing. 

I want to share that we were ALL worried about potential harassment and assault by 🧊and fliers were handed out to prepare us. And you would think that it would’ve intimidated the community enough to not come out…BUT WE DID. In numbers. 

And for hours that little parking lot next to Press Bay Alley was packed with all sorts of Latinx and non-Latinx community members, eating, laughing, dancing, singing, and drinking all the cafecitos and refreshers we had to offer. Literally. We went home cleaned out!

All this to say that we are all aware of the threats but we also understand the power and importance of coming together as a community and a people. By no means are we all the same, and Lord knows a lot of Latinos have a lot of self-reflecting to do based on the choices they made, but yesterday was a testament to the best of us, and I thank @yenospina and @lcatompkins for putting together such a wonderful event, for inviting @cafecomodony to be a part of it, and to all the friends, old and new, who came out to support us and la cultura. 

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This cloudy morning seems to have calmed things down a bit, but not for long I am sure. These families work hard!

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I want to take moment to send out love to my fello I want to take moment to send out love to my fellow Latinx and immigrant community. 

To send strength to my community of glorious misfits who are out in the world making good trouble and emboldening us to not give up hope on our dreams, our livelihoods, our future, our country, our people. 

The country our parents worked so hard to get to so that we could fly. A country they helped build and bring to prosper. A country our communities help to feed and house and care for. 

I am my immigrant parents dream come true, and my children are a continuation of that dream. 

I just want to remind all of us who represent the targeted, of our worth. Of the value of our contributions. In our languages, our culture, our insights, our work ethic and skills and knowledge. Of the things we bring to the table.

I don’t know what will happen tomorrow, or to us. But, as someone whose family lived through a dictatorship, I have an idea of how this story will end. And all I can advise is that we remain on the right side of it, our convictions unaltered, our core values untethered. Our spirits unbroken. In these stories, the monsters might scare us, and even harm some of us, but they never, ever win in the end. 

I am living proof of that. ❤️ And every time you succeed and feel joy, you are too. Pa’lante, mi gente.
Signs of autumn 🍂 in the Finger Lakes. Signs of autumn 🍂 in the Finger Lakes.

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