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December 31, 2009

2010: New Year, Even More Adventures Ahead

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53683931-1I’m not a fan of New Year Resolutions. Though I love New Beginnings. For me, it’s a time of reflection, a time to take a long hard look at what/who is weighing me down, and what/who is lifting me up.  But most of all it is a time, though not the only time throughout the year, where I can really appreciate all of the people that have made this year one of growth, learning, and happiness for me.

My husband, with whom I celebrated another year of marriage and companionship, is by far on the top of my list of people to be grateful for. He’s the reason you even know me. He is my strongest supporter, my dearest friend, and really just an all around awesome guy. He and my kids have made this year a really, really fun one.

Oh man, my kids. Ok. Well. Love them. A lot. The 12 year old flourished this year. Somehow managed to be taller than me. The 3 and 4 year old. Pure terror. Yup. Others say that they are not. But they are. They have however, also gotten smarter, more articulate. This year they both learned to go potty and drink successfully out of normal cups and glasses and have learned to not run around like wild monkeys at restaurants. Happy and healthy, they make for awesome tax deductions and great stories, and quite a fun and interesting life.

My friends…wow. How blessed am I to have made such amazing new friendships this year. What’s even more amazing is that a lot of those friendships are with girls/women/chicks…and to boot, other Moms. Because honestly, I have not always been the mom/chick/women/girl’s friend type of person…but maybe, now, I kinda sorta am…or better yet, maybe there are way more cooler moms/chicks/women/girl’s out there than I ever noticed before…and they want to be friends with me…which makes me feel special. And the dads/guys/dudes…well, for some amazing reason, they’re all hot…and funny, and smart, and down to earth…which means that at any given moment, I could be surrounded by a bunch of really hot dads/guys/dudes…kinda like in  high school. What girl doesn’t like that deal?

My blog. Wow. Biggie. Still amazed that people read it…and super flattered that they keep coming back for more. Thanks. Really. It’s an awesome ride and I am glad you are joining me on it. To all who read it, connect with me through it, and want to work with me because of it: Thank you! You have really made this year surreal and incredible for us!

Last, but certainly not least, my home, my town, NYC. What can I say that I haven’t already?  I love you. You make me feel the most grounded I’ve ever been in my life. I love everything about you…even when I don’t. People are always asking me why and how a family as large as mine doesn’t just move to the burbs, where life promises to be easier and better and less expensive…and yeah, it’s tempting at times. But you are who I am…and where I belong.

So here it is, another new year.  I hope that you find content in who you have been and the life you lead enough to not want to change too much next year, but I also wish you happiness, health, and much success in the many things you’ve yet to accomplish. May any unaccomplished dreams, or developed new ones find their way into your reality this year and may your days be full of Adventures!

Happy New Year Everyone!

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Carol Cain

Brooklyn native Carol is happiest when on an adventure, whether close to home or farther away. She is a small business owner and travel writer. In addition to creating Girl Gone Travel, she is the Founder and Principal of Brave World Media, a social media marketing, communications, and branding agency. She's mom to three wonderful sons and wife to a handsome Irish/Scot. She lives, works, and plays in the beautiful Finger Lakes region of NY.

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9 Comments
  • Nanette
    December 31, 2009

    I love NYC! Your blog really captures all that the city is about. Wishing you and you family all the happiness and success you can hold.

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    • Carol
      Nanette
      December 31, 2009

      Thank you Nannette! I wish you the same! Much love–Carol

      Reply
  • Mateo
    December 31, 2009

    Happy New Year, to you and yours. I've enjoyed following you not only on twitter but here on your blog, and having had the chance to meet only help prove you are a great person. See you in 2010 my web 2.0 sis

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    • Carol
      Mateo
      December 31, 2009

      Happy New Year Bro! Besos!

      Reply
  • Melisa with one S
    January 2, 2010

    Great post! I wish you and your family a happy, healthy, and prosperous 2010!

    Love you long time, girl! 🙂

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    • Carol
      Melisa with one S
      January 2, 2010

      Me too girl! xoxox Happy New Year!

      Reply
  • hicksgirl93
    January 2, 2010

    What a wonderful post. So very refreshing to read about a woman totally in love with her husband, children and hometown. You go girl!

    Reply
  • Sugar Jones
    January 5, 2010

    I got to meet your city in 2009. It's amazing!! What I wouldn't do to live there. Except for when it's freezing cold. I'm too much of a weather wimp. But still. It's a freaking awesome city.

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  • bluetulip
    January 9, 2010

    Happy New Year to you…great site you have here..

    Do you have contact email?

    cheers

    bluetulip

    Reply

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Hi! I'm Carol! I am an award-winning travel blogger, a keynote speaker, and the Principal and owner of Brave World Media, a social media marketing, communications, and branding agency. I a wife to a handsome Irish/Scot and a mom to 3 sons. Welcome to my blog where I share stories of my travels and professional public relations insights and advice. Thank you for reading and for your support!

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